It never gets easier, people you love not being there for you anymore.
You have to stop mourning in dark.
Why?
To forget her, and get back to your LIFE!
But I don't want to forget her. I always wanted her to be a part of my life forever. I can't imagine that now, she's not there for me anymore. And I won't get to see or even hear her voice EVER in my life again.
You HAVE TO. You are mortal, its the mortal way. You should stop cribbing over some lost love, and say good-bye to all your yesterdays. They are gone. Its Over. No more sorrow. You bid the farewell to it and move on with your life. Thats the bottom line, FACE IT. At times, the fact of her absence will hit you like a bow to the chest, and you will weep. But this will gradually decrease as time flies by. "Love" is over and NOT your "LIFE". You still have plenty of days to live and much better feats to perform. And if you want to die, then be brave, go ahead and shoot yourself. You don't need to sing an opera for it. But STOP living dead. ACCEPT IT. She's gone. Dead for you. And you're alive. So LIVE!
But I think about her all the time. And feel blue, anxious, depressed, melancholic, angst, horribly disgusting etcetera all day. And I don't like to see myself in such a locale.
You see what you WANT to see. You do what you WANT to do. You think what you WANT to think. And you feel what you WANT to feel. Arrange these words in your brain cells. Got it?
Hmm...
What hmm...?
Hmm... I know.
You better!
You have to stop mourning in dark.
Why?
To forget her, and get back to your LIFE!
But I don't want to forget her. I always wanted her to be a part of my life forever. I can't imagine that now, she's not there for me anymore. And I won't get to see or even hear her voice EVER in my life again.
You HAVE TO. You are mortal, its the mortal way. You should stop cribbing over some lost love, and say good-bye to all your yesterdays. They are gone. Its Over. No more sorrow. You bid the farewell to it and move on with your life. Thats the bottom line, FACE IT. At times, the fact of her absence will hit you like a bow to the chest, and you will weep. But this will gradually decrease as time flies by. "Love" is over and NOT your "LIFE". You still have plenty of days to live and much better feats to perform. And if you want to die, then be brave, go ahead and shoot yourself. You don't need to sing an opera for it. But STOP living dead. ACCEPT IT. She's gone. Dead for you. And you're alive. So LIVE!
But I think about her all the time. And feel blue, anxious, depressed, melancholic, angst, horribly disgusting etcetera all day. And I don't like to see myself in such a locale.
You see what you WANT to see. You do what you WANT to do. You think what you WANT to think. And you feel what you WANT to feel. Arrange these words in your brain cells. Got it?
Hmm...
What hmm...?
Hmm... I know.
You better!
19 comments:
well thats what it is...
we have all our answers...yet we keep questioning innocently all our lives...sometimes we jus dont seem to agree with ourselves even if it makes complete sense :)
You know the answers. Now you just need to believe them.
this really cheered me up dude.i needed that ..thanx....
You got that right... you have it all within you!
never mentioned this anywhere but feel like!
Why does 1 person change our whole life in 'that' sense...
Why is it so difficult to handle it...when all this time we keep telling ourselves that this is what we want , we dont get it?
A part of us is scared....
anyways dint exactly mean to get u thinking all over!
Everyone has loved and lost once. Time heals everything....old philo stuff but damn its true!..
u got a beautiful place out here!
:) u know ur questions with the answers as well...
Yeh kya bhayankar song hai rohit..u scarin me from ur blog now..STOP IT!!!!!!!!!! (I mean the actual act of ash tray...maanle baat yaar).
wen ppl change...thrz no reason fo u to want thm...coz they r not wat u want anymore...n i guess u already knw dat!
well cool to visit your new space....milds hai ki lights ....hmmm
but dude you are absolutly right - there are esctatic moments in any relationship that one cannot and should not according to me forget...
i think for any creative soul these moments, their once existence and now their disappearance is a lot of fodder - for a common un dotlike mind - its just a thing of the past....
writing down stuff pretty much clears our heads. thats wen u'd find the hybernating wise guy in u come up and mark his attendance.
"You see what you WANT to see. You do what you WANT to do. You think what you WANT to think. And you feel what you WANT to feel. Arrange these words in your brain cells. Got it?"-- Yes this is our dilemma and this is our choice.
Very articulate post :-)
lol
and do u manage to listen to and follow whatever this "intellectual soul" of yours says??
the same mind that acts so sensibly finds out practical answers to ur questions...makes u miss her so miserablY!
My inner voice always talks - uff! - talks me out of feelings, talks me into snares. always bak bak bak 24X7
and about the concept of the post, i won't say much - except, mera bhi same haal hai so cannot give you gyaan
Heh. I know my comments are bhery bhery silly. :P
*tears*
Its true, as many ppl here have commented..
We all know what we want.. we have the answers to all our feelings emotions problems etc etc.. but its the implementation of these ''correct,practical'' ways that eats us away frm within.. because the emotional fool within us WANTS to hope..WANTS to see the loved one back..WANTS to know that it will be okay and like how it was before..WANTS to feel within itself the presence of the same love again..
this undying, never ending conflict is (i think) one of the beautiful aspects of life and of the human heart/mind/soul/spirit.. all fused together..
Keep smiling..
Sneha
*If only, he was audible all the time*
wow. take a bow.
Hahaha! Been there, oh SO been there. Know exactly what you are/have been going through. Recent heart aches and all that shit. Keep chanting this mantra: "This too shall pass"... and honey, it will...
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